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Parenting Peer Pressure

- sebaiknya ya.. yang seumuran babyJ itu banyak di kenalin buah. Biar nanti pinter makan buah kaya anak saya.
- loh kok bobo nya masih di gendong sih. Nyape nyapein diri sendiri ajah. Nih ya anak saya tuh masukin di stroller aja pake kaki goyang goyang tuh bisa tidur. Maka nya cape tuh jangan di cari cari.
- dibiasain dong kalo makan itu duduk manis di kursi dan meja makan. Ajarin sopan santun dong sejak dini.
- anak sakit kok ga dibawa ke dokter sih. Itu anak nya batuk, bawa ke dokter dong.
- masih nenen? anak seumur itu masih nenen? kenapa ga mulai di sapih sih?
- pantes aja anak nya manja, soalnya masih nenen ke ibu nya sih.
- di ajak ngobrol dong anak nya. Biar bisa cepet ngomong. Seumuran itu anak saya dah bisa nyanyi.
- judes banget sih anak nya, ga mao main sama sodara sodara. (ya ampun.. kan baru juga ketemu. dia belum kenal... *nangis* )

Saya sama anak saya ijin tinggal di gua aja ya.
Kayanya lebih damai dan tentram disana.

Kadang saya ngerasa overwhelmed sama perhatian semua orang tentang keluarga saya. Tapi saya ucapkan mamaciih banyak banyak ya, banyak yang pengen kami bisa jadi keluarga yang better.

Tapi tetep pengen tinggal di gua aja ah.


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